
A Great Mills man has been arrested and is facing serious charges, including first-degree rape and assault, following a violent domestic incident that took place on May 28, 2025. The St. Mary’s County Sheriff’s Office responded to a call from a residence located on Taras Court, where deputies arrived to find a woman alleging that her husband, 40-year-old Chee Wei Gary Tan, physically and sexually assaulted her.
According to the victim, the altercation began after an argument with Tan. The woman reported that Tan became violent when she refused to engage in sexual intercourse. He allegedly struck her multiple times in the face and strangled her to the point where she had difficulty breathing. She also claimed that Tan forced intercourse against her will.
When deputies arrived at the scene, they observed signs of the woman’s injuries, including bruising around her mouth, a bloody nose, red cheeks, and neck marks consistent with strangulation. The woman was visibly distressed, and her condition prompted immediate action from law enforcement.
The Arrest and Investigation
Tan was taken into custody without incident. During a subsequent interview, Tan reportedly admitted to the allegations, acknowledging that he had grabbed the victim by the throat during the incident and engaged in intercourse with her following the argument. He was charged with first-degree rape and assault. At this time, Tan is being held at the St. Mary’s County Detention Center without bond.
The St. Mary’s County Sheriff’s Office has not released additional details, citing the ongoing investigation. However, the arrest highlights the dangers of domestic violence, a serious issue that continues to affect individuals and families across the country.
Domestic Violence Resources
Domestic violence is a pervasive issue that affects individuals of all ages, genders, and backgrounds. For those experiencing violence in the home, it is critical to reach out for help. Support is available through several organizations and hotlines.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers confidential support to those affected by domestic violence. The hotline can be reached at 1-800-799-7233 or through their website at www.thehotline.org.
In addition, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) provides valuable resources for those seeking information and support related to domestic violence. You can visit their website at www.ncadv.org.
Legal Implications of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence, including physical assault and sexual assault, is a criminal offense in the United States. The severity of the charges depends on the specifics of the case, but first-degree rape and assault are considered serious felonies, often carrying lengthy prison sentences.
In this case, Chee Wei Gary Tan faces charges that could result in significant legal consequences. Sexual assault and domestic violence are often prosecuted aggressively, and the victims in these cases are entitled to support through both legal channels and victim assistance services.
It is essential for victims of domestic violence to understand their rights and the available legal protections. For those in Maryland, the Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence (MNADV) offers assistance and can provide support through the legal process. Visit www.mnadv.org for more information.
Ongoing Investigation
While the investigation continues, the Sheriff’s Office has been tight-lipped about any potential further charges or the timeline for legal proceedings. The victim has reportedly received medical attention for her injuries and is being supported by local victim services.
Authorities urge anyone experiencing or witnessing domestic violence to contact law enforcement immediately. Domestic violence affects not only the individuals directly involved but also families, children, and entire communities.